Sophistication".......why everywhere...??

I am sure that everyone reading this blog must be aware of the increasing importance given to this,...
Wherever you go, people now-a-days prefer a so-called sophisticated lifestyle in the office, or anywhere , also at home. Like a measurement they scale out their deeds and behave accordingly...Sit properly, talk less, smile and not laugh, eat with calorie consciousness, dress upto date.. there a lot many things to tell..
With this I am not saying that a person can behave anyhow and anywhere without any etiquettes. But then not all the time. It has to be limited to certain formal places. It should be friendly with friends. There comes the real spark in relationship. The true pure ourselves....! that reveals we" who are actually so simple just hidden behind the masks of artificial formalities..[when not always required.]
The need to free ourselves from the shackles of discipline. Its good to do things we want and not just because people think its appropriate. For some time we should be just we" and live" the way we want" unadulterated with any superficial decorum [obviously as long as we don't harm others.]
From our busy schedules there should be time where we be amongst people with whom we can be ourselves and not just be so formal for the sake of it...
I do agree that at certain places , it is inevitable to behave well and with manners .But not that they are always necessary.
Certain things look well with expressions and not always words required to exhibit the sophistication...!

Comments

Divya said…
A nice read..Would have been better if you had elaborated more on the topic...
mihir mulay said…
what if sophistication is really ur way of life....??? i mean considering that being sophisticated in different domains is being 'Me'!!
Respect ! said…
i agree with the above... sophasticated doesnt mean being plastic.... to be sophasticated u need to be true to urself... to explain my view on sophastication, say if every moment of ur life is being recorded, if u feel thats the correct way u shud have behaved while looking at this video, thats sophasticated.
ME said…
alll the day working in office with people you share formal interaction, and here it works for 6 days of a week, so its good to have an informal family and friendly atmosphere with a chosen few!
Thats what nandini means i guess, and i agree!

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