Just from the heart...........

Well, these days there is a trend of a makeover". Because of competitions and importance to personality development, every single person is thinking of a make over. And I am no exception.... In my spare time , I like watching reality shows wherein they show people undergoing drastic change in their looks and their appearance. Improved face make up, hairstyling, our dressing, our gait is all that we need in a perfect make over of our body..! But then there are certain things that matter in the overall change of your existence.......The many coats that we apply on top, are they sufficient enough? Are they really gonna change us completely? Are they gonna divert our line of thinking..? Why not the make over of the mind "that is still the same.... The mind that is still criticising others, always competing with others, and that always aspires to pull someone and go up.... Actually our outer appearance is the reflection of what we are from inside. The deep within is never conceale...

I have always been fantacising with abstract notions.I like to deal with them as living beings .So then, the interaction goes simpler... You know one thing special about them is that unlike human beings, they listen to you if you tell them deliberately. [because they don't think like human beings.]They just do it they way you direct them. So the funniest part is, most of the times its we" who invite them and then just forget to say no". So now it seems that having the ability to think doesn't count. How to think?" that counts. We as individuals ,think that worrying is our birthright and keep on worrying about simplest of the simple things, as if that is going to create any great difference. Big deal... Nothing stops with any sort of difference ... Every moment life is undergoing a change. And so worrying about this moment" is spoiling the next moment"..... Worry is actually a hindrance in our success that likes to be the cynosure. The time it will reali...

What say...the title itself must have made your mouths water...isn't it really great? Every season definitely brings in pleasure in our lives having its own essence. Also its upto us as to how we savour it..........!! Well everyone has its own way and I respect all of them. Now coming to my main intention.... The other day when I just mention the word kanda bhaji" , some of the faces were lit up and ready to gulp the moment I was going to get. On the contrary there was one soul who was not ready to eat onions" not coz of dislike" but because it increases the so called "tamsik guna" in the body. Now what to say to this... Being born n brought up in cosmopolitan environment, I have due respect to all castes, sects and I always welcome the good principles of all.But definitely there are certain things that really make me laugh, may be because of my ignorance.,or I donno...what........ But actually I personally feel that how can food decide your state of mind? ...

For those who are viewing this blog with the expectations of having any disputes then chill... ! Nothing of that sort. Just that many of my relatives and friends are engineers and there has been difference of opinion at times [both right in their own way], that I felt like writing on this..... As far as academics are concerned, definitely engineering students have to struggle a lot . Artists on the other hand, enjoy their lives thoroughly observing nature, its beauty and bringing it on either canvas or paper, may be in the form of paintings, poems or writings. They are indeed fortunate enough to appreciate the beauty[ no matter where they can find], and give a proper justice to it...!! Engineers are very practical people always filled with questions like why, how, when," in their their mind and are always in search of answers for the same.. I am not saying that artists don't reason things but they enjoy having their own assumptions and creating their own abstract ideas on a pa...

Not to mention , but some of my artist friends say that they get pleasure in smoking or drinking. They are then able to enjoy the so called" ecstatic happiness"and thus can overpower the sadness in their lives. They say that when they take a puff [or peg for that matter],with every release , they feel that depression is vanishing and they are now feeling on top of the world. But to them I want to ask one thing "why are they being so unjust with certain feelings"? We are composed of different sorts of feelings like anger, happiness ,sadness, love, hatred, mercy ......... every feeling has to be there for any living being to be complete... People take support of the foreign material [not actually required] just to be happy. But in the process, they deprive themselves from one feeling of "sadness" which can be wonderful if taken in the right sense. It sounds weired. But then it is true! God ,the great Creator has created the most beautiful place the heart...

When we were born.... there was., Life in the tears, Purity in the heart, Gentleness on the face, Innocence in any action. But in due course of time, we tend to grow up ". We understand things and start thinking rationally. We become more practical. On our way towards maturity..we forget one thing that we start limiting ourselves.. the actions that we would have otherwise done as a child.... Our imaginations then get a boundary line. We tend to reason things for a reason rather than reasoning things without any reason like a kindergarten. We lose the power of acceptance" by being sceptical about everything good". Most of the times its the situation or condition that acts as a catalyst in bringing about a change in us.Circumstances wake us from the sleep of infancy". And then we are geared up to lead a more matured living. But in this process of mental transformation, we leave behind our innocence". In this mean world [of which we are a part], we tend to drag ou...

As a child, coming first in the class is success . As a teenager, getting a proficient degree . As a youngster, securing a good salaried job . As a married person, life partner being loyal . As a parent, children not getting spoiled . As an oldie, having savings in pf is success ! But truly speaking is our success limited to only these many times in the different stages of life.. In a life span of 55-60 years, is success so expensive that we can achieve it so few times... How do you define success? Its a state of happiness.... Then why this tenure of happiness limited to only a few moments in life.... Why should there be terms and conditions for us to be happy.... Why cant we be successful every moment... Taking in the purities with every breath is success... Exhaling the impurities[interspersed with evils like hatred and falsehood ] is success . Doing anything" in life is success Doing nothing" in life is success [ coz both come under the category of doing something !!] Hey...